Nicole "Reese" Graggs

Officiant | Poet | Founder of The Alter

Nicole Reese Graggs is a Columbus, Ohio native, ordained minister, and the creative visionary behind The Alter—a soul-centered officiant service offering sacred, personalized ceremonies for all expressions of love.

A poet, artist, and spiritual space holder, Reese blends deep intentionality with grounded presence to create ceremonies that don’t just mark a moment—they transform it. Since becoming ordained in 2019, Reese has dedicated her work to honoring couples who want more than tradition—they want truth, connection, and a ceremony that feels like them.

Rooted in a belief that love is divine and revolutionary, Reese serves monogamous, polyamorous, LGBTQIA+, and non-traditional couples with care, creativity, and zero judgment. Her ceremonies honor all spiritual paths, denominations, and belief systems—with a special heart for those who don’t see themselves reflected in the mainstream.

Whether it’s a luxury grand ballroom event, a micro-wedding in the woods, a sacred circle of chosen family, or a custom union beyond the binary, Reese works closely with each couple to create a ceremony that reflects your values, you voice, and your vision.

Because love deserves to be fully seen.
Fully felt. And fully free.


Have you ever considered

being an officiant?

If you have a background in Event Hosting, Performing Arts or Public Speaking-we'd love to connect. Find out how to join The Alter Officiating Team.

priest holding bible
priest holding bible

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An outdoor wedding setup on a wooden deck by the ocean features white chairs arranged in rows facing an altar adorned with flowing white drapes and floral decorations. String lights are hung above, and the ocean provides a serene backdrop with a pastel sky.
An outdoor wedding setup on a wooden deck by the ocean features white chairs arranged in rows facing an altar adorned with flowing white drapes and floral decorations. String lights are hung above, and the ocean provides a serene backdrop with a pastel sky.

Gallery

Explore our unique wedding ceremonies and unforgettable moments captured.

A couple is standing in a church in front of an altar, adorned with a floral arrangement. The church features ornate stained glass windows and intricate architectural details. A priest or officiant stands at the side, conducting the ceremony, while guests are seated nearby.
A couple is standing in a church in front of an altar, adorned with a floral arrangement. The church features ornate stained glass windows and intricate architectural details. A priest or officiant stands at the side, conducting the ceremony, while guests are seated nearby.
A wedding celebration with a bride and groom walking down an aisle outdoors, surrounded by a cheering crowd. The bridesmaids are wearing varying shades of blue dresses, and the atmosphere is festive. People are holding bouquets and capturing moments on their phones, while a child sits on a chair observing the scene.
A wedding celebration with a bride and groom walking down an aisle outdoors, surrounded by a cheering crowd. The bridesmaids are wearing varying shades of blue dresses, and the atmosphere is festive. People are holding bouquets and capturing moments on their phones, while a child sits on a chair observing the scene.
A person in a religious robe is officiating a ceremony, holding a book while another individual places their hand over a third person's hand. The setting appears to be a church.
A person in a religious robe is officiating a ceremony, holding a book while another individual places their hand over a third person's hand. The setting appears to be a church.

The Alter made our wedding truly special with a personalized ceremony that reflected our unique love story.

Sophia & Geoff

woman in white long sleeve shirt and white pants standing on road during daytime
woman in white long sleeve shirt and white pants standing on road during daytime
man in black suit kissing woman in white wedding dress
man in black suit kissing woman in white wedding dress

★★★★★